Kai Siedenburg – Common Ground Magazine https://www.commongroundmag.com A Magazine for Conscious Community Sat, 07 Aug 2021 13:36:34 +0000 en-US hourly 1 Eight Ways to Connect With Nature in Daily Life https://www.commongroundmag.com/eight-ways-to-connect-with-nature-in-daily-life/ https://www.commongroundmag.com/eight-ways-to-connect-with-nature-in-daily-life/#respond Sun, 01 Apr 2018 09:53:00 +0000 https://commongroundm.wpengine.com/?p=791 BY KAI SIEDENBURG

Many of us love being in nature and we know it’s profoundly good for our mind, body, and spirit. Yet most of us also lead very full lives in cities almost entirely indoors, which makes it hard to get out to wild places as often as we’d like. So how can we get the direct contact with nature that is so essential for our well-being?

One key is to find small ways to notice and appreciate the presence of nature in our daily lives. Once we start looking, we may be surprised to discover just how much nature is part of everyday life, and how just a few moments of connecting with it can brighten our days and enrich our lives.

Here are some general tips for how to connect with nature wherever you are, followed by suggestions linked to specific times of the day and common activities.

  1. Start where you are.

Notice how the natural world is part of your everyday life, even in the midst of a city—in food, water, plants, animals, daily and seasonal cycles, your own body, and more. Simply bringing awareness to the presence of nature around you will strengthen your connection. Notice which aspects of nature you are instinctively drawn to and find ways to say “yes” to them, even just for a few moments.

2. Go screen-free.

Take breaks from electronic devices, especially when you’re outside. Turn off or silence your device, put it away, or (better yet) leave it behind so you can unhook the electronic leash and be more fully present. Enjoy observing and exploring the world around you, tuning into the presence of plants, birds, clouds, and other natural beauty.

3. Go for the green and blue.

Look for opportunities to be near trees, plants, and water, and to notice and appreciate their company. Choose walking, biking, and driving routes with more green and blue. Eat some of your meals outside and/or near plants or water. Grow a garden or bring living plants into your home and work space. Gaze softly at green plants (indoors or out) for quick breaks, and venture out into green space for longer breaks.

4. Bring it outside.

Begin with something you already do, and bring it out to a park or beautiful outdoor setting to enhance your enjoyment and the health benefits. A few great options: exercise, meals, reading, writing, yoga, meditation, and sharing time with friends and family. Or simply step outside during the day, feel the sun or breeze on your skin, take in the sights and sounds, and notice what draws your attention in a pleasing way.

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5. Bring the outside in.

Having nature images or natural treasures in your indoor environment or visualizing yourself in a peaceful outdoor setting will help you stay connected to nature and the special places you love. You’ll also receive some of the physical and mental health benefits of actually being in those places.

6. Move your body.

Your own body is a natural wonder. Movement is essential to keeping it happy and healthy and to supporting your natural intelligence and vitality. Exercising outside quickly multiplies the benefits and motivates you to keep moving—even just a brief walk makes a difference. Find opportunities to move your body regularly—daily if possible—especially ones that take you outdoors or bring you joy.

7. Make friends.

Walk or bike around your neighborhood or sit quietly outside and meet your natural neighbors, observing them with friendly curiosity. You might be surprised to discover how many fascinating more-thanhuman neighbors you have. Notice if there are particular trees, animals, or natural places you feel drawn to. Find ways to communicate and tend your connection with them. They can become dear friends and powerful allies if you give them a chance.

8. Give thanks.

Every day, we receive many beautiful and useful gifts from the natural world, mostly without noticing. Look for opportunities to appreciate these gifts more, even just for a few moments. You might pause to give thanks for a meal, a sunset, or a lovely flower. Consider keeping a gratitude journal or writing a thank-you letter to the earth, or to a plant, animal, or place that is special to you. The more you feel and express your gratitude, the more it will nourish you.

When we take the opportunity to connect with nature wherever we are, we remind ourselves of how much goodness and beauty still exist in our troubled world and we bring more peace, joy, and healing into our busy lives. It’s a remarkably important key to creating a healthier and more sustainable future.


Kai Siedenburg is a mindful nature connection guide who loves to inspire people to connect with the earth in simple ways in daily life, to cultivate deeper bonds with wild places, and to access nature-based healing. This essay is adapted from her new book Poems of Earth and Spirit: 70 Poems and 40 Practices to Deepen Your Connection With Nature. PoemsofEarthandSpirit.com or OurNatureConnection.com.

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Trees and People—Standing Together https://www.commongroundmag.com/trees-and-people-standing-together/ https://www.commongroundmag.com/trees-and-people-standing-together/#respond Wed, 01 Apr 2015 17:58:00 +0000 https://commongroundm.wpengine.com/?p=1290 BY KAI SIEDENBURG

If we surrendered to earth’s intelligence
we could rise up rooted, like trees.
—Rainer Maria Rilke

There’s something special about trees, and we know it.

Even on a planet graced with an astounding array of intelligent and creative life, trees are standouts. If there were people who could do what trees do, they would be honored as ecological heroes, gifted healers, and selfless public servants—perhaps even awarded a Nobel prize.

Trees give so much—including food, oxygen, homes, and habitat. Every person and virtually every living thing relies on trees to survive, directly or indirectly. Trees play crucial roles in ecosystem health and balance—sequestering carbon (which reduces global warming), retaining soil, and contributing to air, water, and nutrient cycling.

Trees also help us heal. Simply being near them is safe and powerful natural medicine for mind and body. In Japan, “forest bathing” is an established public health program with an impressive array of documented benefits, including reduced stress and blood pressure, alleviation of depression, and enhanced immune system function, sleep, and vitality. Scientific studies confirm what we know intuitively—people are happier and healthier when they are near trees.

Our bond with trees goes far beyond what we can measure. Trees are a key link between humans and nature—a living, loving bridge between the human and more-than-human worlds. They touch us deeply and invite us into communion with something much greater than ourselves. In subtle yet profound ways, trees speak to us of peace, wholeness, and balance. They make excellent friends, teachers, and creative collaborators, and have inspired many great minds and spirits.

People have long recognized the remarkable and even sacred nature of trees. In diverse traditions, the tree of life is a sacred symbol, and trees are revered as wise and spiritual beings—a view that endures today, even in Hollywood movies like Pocahontas and Avatar. The Buddha attained enlightenment sitting under a Bodhi tree, and forest meditation has been practiced for thousands of years. In contemporary times, Thai monks wrap trees in saffron robes and ordain them to signify their sacredness and protect them from destruction.

Yet despite humans’ profound and loving bond with trees, our modern culture conditions us to take them for granted, tune them out, and act as though we are separate from them. Most of us habitually walk by trees without registering their presence—let alone pausing to appreciate them or connect more intimately. As a result, we miss out on many opportunities to bring more peace, joy, and healing into our lives and the world. Still, the bond between trees and humans runs deep and can be easily strengthened.

What if we brought a little more openness, gratitude, and love into our relationship with trees? What might that look like, and what might become possible—for us and for our planet? Here are a few ideas to explore.

Ten Ways to Deepen Your
Connection with Trees

Notice. Start noticing how trees and their gifts are part of your daily life, and take a few moments to appreciate them when you can. A little awareness can go a long way.

Just be. Find a tree you feel drawn to and simply enjoy being with it. Try sitting and leaning back into the tree, standing with the front of your body and palms resting on the trunk, or whatever helps you feel more present. (It’s a good practice to ask permission before and give thanks after you connect.) When your mind wanders, gently bring it back to the tree, your breath, or physical sensations.

Get acquainted. Walk around a tree, looking high and low, getting to know it from different vantage points, maybe even climbing it. Use all your senses—touch is especially powerful for bringing you into the moment and a more intimate connection. Let your intuition and curiosity guide you, and see how much you can learn through direct experience.

Branch out. Explore different ways of relating to trees. Follow your instincts and move like a curious animal. Climb up into a tree and find a perch where you can sit or lounge for a while. Dance or move creatively with a tree partner, or sing, write, or make art with a tree.

Rest. Lie down under a tree, ideally in a peaceful, beautiful place where you feel safe. Gently take in the sights and sounds with a soft focus, or allow your eyes to close. Notice that there is nothing you have to do. See how fully you can relax and release into the support of the earth.

Hug. Hugging is a natural way to express affection and a delicious way to connect with a tree. Long, lingering hugs are especially nourishing. Let’s embrace tree hugging as the simple, honorable practice that it is.

Make friends. Find a friendly-looking tree that you feel an affinity for and can visit regularly. Get to know it, using your intuition and some of these practices. Open your heart and mind to the tree, and see where that leads you.

Listen deeply. While connecting with a tree, cultivate a quiet and receptive state. Tune into the tree, listen deeply, and see what comes. Or guide the communication by holding an intention, asking a question, or speaking directly to the tree. (Although we’ve been taught to forget this, it’s natural and healthy for us to experience deep connection and communication with trees and other living beings.)

Bless. Honor a tree with a song, poem, prayer, or symbolic offering. You may want to create a simple ceremony of blessing or thanks-giving, or practice the Celtic tradition of tura, a walking prayer around a tree or sacred place. Find ways to bring trees into your spiritual practice (if you have one) or bring your practice to the trees.

Give thanks, give back. Offer thanks to trees as you walk by or receive gifts from them. Support our tree friends by planting and tending them, reducing wood and paper use, choosing recycled or greener options, scaling back consumption and energy use, and donating to groups that protect our precious planet. Linking small, personal actions with love for trees or broader values makes them more meaningful and rewarding.

We live in chaotic and challenging times, and it’s often not easy to stay grounded, balanced, and healthy. Connecting with trees can help us. And this is not just about what trees can do for us, or even what we can do for them. It’s about what we can do together—for ourselves, each other, and the future of all life.


Kai Siedenburg is a nature connection guide and writer who helps people cultivate intimate, mindful, and juicy relationships with the natural world. She offers group programs and individual sessions, and is writing a guide to connecting with nature for modern humans. OurNatureConnection.com

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